A lady admits she is struggling to leave a relationship with a married man, says she feels trapped

Lady shares a deeply personal account of his position relationship with a married man, admitting that despite guilt and repeated attempts to leave, she was unable to end the affair.

According to her, the relationship started after the man allegedly told her that he and his wife were headed for divorce.

However, she later revealed that the marriage was still intact and described the man’s wife as a kind and respectful person.

Lady reveals how she met her boyfriend’s wife

The woman said she was embarrassed to meet her husband in person, especially after hearing about the couple’s history, their family and the impact the situation could have on their children.

She revealed that she initially ended the relationship but eventually reconciled with the man after he repeatedly begged her to stay.

Despite admitting the emotional day the situation took on everyone involved, she admitted she is still attached to him and is fighting to leave.

The woman said that she often feels conflicted because the relationship brings her happiness and at the same time leaves her burdened with guilt.

She also expressed her condolences to his wife and stated that her continued involvement was not driven by malice towards her.

The post read…

“Ifeeeee this is me. I need to go to rehab if there is one for people like me. I think I’m possessed or this man used something on me. I’m Mpasa, my friends have talked and prayed but I feel stuck. I’m currently dating a married man who told me earlier that he and his wife are divorcing. That was 3 years ago only to find out after a year of dating that the woman is a sweet soul.

I’ve never dated a married man before, but the love this man shows me is something I’ve never had before. I confronted him, he begged me and said he loves me and we should continue until I find my man. I agreed, I don’t know why.

His wife came to my workplace to see me, I was so scared and shocked. As she entered, she is friends with my emergency room. She sat with me in my office, she told me how she met her husband, how they were in a hurry to have their wealth today, how close he is to his children and if they know about me, they will lose respect for their dad.

I cried that day because I was ashamed. I finished with him, but he ran into my house out of anger and out of anger to beg and that’s how I came back.

My wife has called me up to 4 times since then and I stopped taking her calls out of shame. I tell myself I’m single and looking for a relationship, but almost everyone in Lagos knows I’m dating this man. Where do I go from here? I swear I tried to leave, but now I’ve given up.

Maybe this is my destiny to be another woman. Maybe I need the prayers of the community. I want to let go. It’s crazy that this man is not a womanizer, our love is getting stronger and I’m getting more and more ashamed, but I can’t break him. He makes me happy and I feel sad for myself for doing this to a woman.

I know you may not understand and I know I may just be ranting. Your wife is following you and I hope that if she reads, she knows that I feel stuck and that I have nothing against her…”

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