“You have to put me on a monthly salary, hire 8 nannies for our baby” – the lady lists strict conditions for her future husband

Nigerian lady caused backlash online after sharing a long list of conditions she expects every man to meet before accepting any marriage proposal.
According to her, she is not actively looking for a husband, but if a man insists on marrying her, he must be ready to meet several conditions.
One of its main conditions is receiving a fixed income monthly allowance via direct deposit, regardless of how her future husband’s business is going.
She said in her own words:
“You have to put me on a monthly salary. I don’t want to hear about your business. I should get my pocket money every month via direct deposit.”
The lady also revealed that she would rather have children through a surrogate than carry the pregnancy herself. She added that eight nannies will be needed to help take care of the child after birth.
She further stated that she does not want to see her husband around the house every morning and expects him to leave her money before he goes out.
“The only days we will be intimate are special occasions like birthdays and wedding anniversaries. You have to buy me a car and upgrade it every two years,” she added.
Her comments quickly sparked mixed reactions online, with some social media users finding the requests humorous, while others described them as unrealistic and exaggerated.
The video continued to trend on social media platforms, sparking conversations about modern relationships, expectations of marriage and financial responsibilities between couples.
Watch the video below…
“If I have to marry you, these are my terms: give me a monthly salary, pay me via direct deposit every month, and hire a surrogate to carry our child…”
—— a lady states her terms of marriage before agreeing to a man’s proposal. pic.twitter.com/wg12UkLXLN
— safe boy 🪖 (@Asarailu_) June 24, 2026



