“When we were getting into the car, I got slapped” — the woman recounted the kidnapping by her friend’s boyfriend

AND woman shared the harrowing story of being abducted by a close friend’s boyfriend in 2006, using her experience to warn young women about the importance of trusting their instincts.

The woman recounted the incident while reflecting on the plight of people currently facing kidnapping across the country. According to her, the experience lasted less than three hours, but left a lasting impact on her life.

How the incident happened

She explained that she first met this man through her friend and that she had no reason to suspect that he posed any danger.

According to her statement, the man seemed calm, friendly and caring whenever he was around her friend. She said his behavior at the time did not cause any concern.

The situation turned when he offered to give her a ride. Recalling the events of that day, she told how she persuaded her friend to go with her.

“I was kidnapped in 2006, but not by strangers, but by my friend’s boyfriend. I met this guy through a friend. He seemed so beautiful and calm whenever he was around her. But the Christian didn’t see any red flags in me. He was so worried about me. He offered me a ride. So they left and I remember convincing my friend to follow me. As we were getting into the car, I have never seen anyone get slapped like I got slapped that day. This ordeal lasted less than three hours, but I can’t imagine what these kidnapped girls are going through right now. Please, I want to plead with every young girl out there, don’t ignore your instincts. If something doesn’t feel right, don’t go. Trust your gut. Don’t be a victim.”

A warning to young women

The woman used her story to urge young women to remain vigilant, even when dealing with people introduced by trusted friends or acquaintances.

Her account has sparked a debate online, with many social media users sharing the same experiences and emphasizing the need for personal safety awareness.

Others expressed sympathy for the kidnap victims and praised her for speaking publicly about her ordeal.

While security concerns continue to dominate public conversation, her warning resonated with many Nigerians, especially young women navigating unfamiliar situations and relationships.