“Marriage is just two imperfect people who want to build something” – A man shares hard-earned lessons

AND man has sparked online conversations after reflecting on his nine-year marriage, admitting that he and his wife went through some tough times before learning to manage their relationship more maturely.

A man revealed that in the early years of his marriage he once refused to eat his wife’s meals for more than a week after a disagreement, despite still providing money for food.

He also recalled another period when both of them stopped talking to each other for almost three weeks.

He, however, said those experiences are now behind them, adding that both partners have grown over the years and continue to enjoy their marriage by learning from each other.

A man thinks about growth in marriage

Sharing his experience, the man said: “As a married man, I once refused my wife’s food over an argument for over a week, even though I was still providing the money for it. There was another time, close to three weeks, when I didn’t talk to her, and she didn’t talk to me either. Today I have outgrown all those habits. At some point I said I wouldn’t do it anymore. But today we have been studying for 9 years and enjoying it.”

He also asserted that many people speak confidently about marriage until they experience it themselves, pointing out that no relationship is without challenges.

The publication causes reactions on the Internet

Continuing his thinking, the man added, “Many of you talk like professionals until you get married and your true nature comes out. Marriage is just two imperfect people who want to build something. Blocking and unblocking your husband is just one of the ways people vent their anger, which doesn’t mean she isn’t interested again one day to outgrow it. On Twitter, people act like they don’t give a shit. You don’t know what you can do until you get married. No one gives more marriage advice than a man or woman who hasn’t tested marriage. I can’t do this, I can’t do that. If you’ve never had an argument with your wife or husband to the point of leaving, then you haven’t really started a marriage.“

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