The man sparked conversations on social media after sharing relationship advice that many users have described as a reminder of what’s truly important in marriage.
In a viral video circulating on the Internet, the man urged people looking for long-term partners to prioritize kindness over other qualities, arguing that compassion becomes most valuable in difficult times.
‘Choose a kind person’
According to him, relationships are tested in moments of conflict and hardship, and a loving partner is less likely to intentionally inflict emotional pain.
“When you’re ready to settle down, choose a kind person,” he said.
He added that even when things go badly or one partner is at fault, a kind-hearted person remains cautious in his words and actions.
“Even when the house is falling apart, they still know not to do things that will hurt you. Even when it’s your fault, choose the kind person.” he stated.
Users of social networks also agree with this
The video quickly gained attention online, with many users sharing their personal experiences and supporting the message.
User identified as Ugochukwu wrote: “Rather be kind, if you are not kind as a person and you meet a kind person, you will spoil everything.”
Another user, Chucksshe said that kindness is an often overlooked quality in relationships.
“Many men would not identify because they always focus on worldly things about women. Blessed is the man who married a good woman. Not the one who married a rich or endowed woman. I speak from experience,” he wrote.
AJ also supported the advice, saying: “This shouldn’t even be advice, if you marry a senseless body, go tell you.”
FINANCE described the message as understated, noting that marriage is not always easy.
“You see this tip is so underrated here!!!! Marriage will not be all rosy. Please choose someone who is gentle and kind because of the day of trouble.” commented the user.
Another commenter, at Steff’ssummed up the sentiment by writing: “When love dies, kindness is the only thing that can keep you both going.”
Watch the video here…
“When you’re ready to settle down, choose a kind person,” advises the man pic.twitter.com/nnSEcCqcaw
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