“You told everyone but me” – Lady refuses to pay ₦20,000 aso ebi after finding out about friend’s wedding on TikTok

AND lady sparked reactions online after she revealed that she refused to contribute ₦20,000 to her friend’s aso ebi wedding after discovering the engagement news on TikTok instead of hearing it directly from the bride.

The lady refuses to pay ₦20,000 for aso ebi

According to the woman, she found out about the upcoming wedding in August only after seeing it on social networks.

Despite not being informed personally, she said she congratulated the bride and held no grudges.

However, things changed when she received a message asking for £20,000 for the aso ebi.

She said she accepted the request at first until she discovered it was the same the payment details were also sent to her aunt.

Lady explains why she refused

While sharing her experience online, the woman recounted how she felt left out of the wedding preparations despite being expected to contribute financially.

Speaking about it, she said:

“You made an introduction, you didn’t tell me, I saw it on TikTok, I still said congratulations. Wedding in August, you told everyone but me. I’m not upset. Then you sent “Aso ebi #20,000” on my WhatsApp. I said okay. Next thing, you sent it to my aunt + account details… I’m just laughing in isiZulu because I’m not sending you a kobo. Congratulations in advance dear.”

Her comments have since sparked mixed reactions online, with social media users discussing friendship expectations, wedding favors and the culture surrounding aso ebi payments.

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