“If he can’t make a real proposal with gifts, don’t accept him” – Lady advises women on dating standards

Nigerian lady sparked a debate on social media after advising women not to accept relationship offers from men who don’t make an effort when asked out.

According to her, a proper proposal should include a decorated room, gifts and thoughtful planning, adding that women should not settle for anything less.

She said in her own words:

“Ladies, from now on, if a guy wants to ask you out and can’t make a proper proposal, I mean a decorated room with lots of gifts, asking you to be his girlfriend, don’t accept it.”

The lady claimed that such gestures are a necessary minimum and should be expected from men who are truly serious about relationship lessons.

She further encouraged women to reject men who were unwilling to put in the effort, insisting that this would leave room for partners with greater intent.

“Don’t accept because it’s the minimum. And if they’re not ready to do the minimum, let them move on to the next person,” she added.

According to her, women deserve partners who are capable, intentional and willing to make them feel valued from the very beginning of the relationship.

Her statement was followed by numerous reactions. One user wrote: “Since when did asking someone out become a marriage proposal?” Another added: “Trust people on social media at your own risk.”

The video has since drawn mixed reactions online, with many debating whether the girl’s elaborate proposals should be considered a necessity or simply personal preference.

Watch the video below….

I will continue to post videos like this until you men start to have some sense 😂😂😂😂😂 if you like it there is no set standards these girls don’t use una pic.twitter.com/mPyuUr2VBJ

— honest30bgfan (@honest30bgfan_) June 11, 2026