cleric Sarah Omakwu advised women to pay close attention to a man’s character, especially his capacity for kindness, before making a commitment marriage.
Speaking during the sermon, Pastor Omakwu asserted that kindness is one of the most important qualities to look for in a potential husband.
In particular, she criticized the practice of some men demanding the return of gifts they voluntarily gave during a relationship after a breakup, describing such behavior as a sign of bad character.
According to the pastor, the way a person behaves during and after a relationship can reveal important aspects of his personality and values.
She argued that women should marry people who display bitterness, pettiness or a lack of generosity, stressing that kindness often plays a key role in the success and stability of a marriage.
His words in part…
“As a woman, please don’t marry someone who isn’t kind, the type of person who comes back for the things they gave their girlfriend after a breakup. A man will date a woman and when they break up the man will ask her to give him everything back. Anyone who comes back and takes everything they gave when they were dating, I don’t know what to say. That’s a low-class, uncultured, uncouth man that God delivered you from. Don’t marry someone who isn’t kind.”
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“As a woman, please don’t marry someone who isn’t kind, the type of person who goes back for the things she gave her girlfriend after a breakup.”
— Pastor Sarah Omachukwu pic.twitter.com/jS0EAb09FD
— CHUKS 🍥 (@ChuksEricE) June 8, 2026
